Notes of an Aging Pervert

“It may seem a contradiction that I learned from playing with strangers that love is essential to any successful kink scene, and certainly to the ones that are about ecstasy and catharsis. Which is not to say that those scenes were bad (some were, most weren’t). The corollary to my theory is that love happens in odd places – sometimes in a dungeon in a strange city, with someone you’ll never see again.”